Monday, 23 September 2013

School life and 2 weeks in Italia

So much has happened since I last wrote on the blog but I think I’m just going to post about school because that’s probably the biggest thing since then.

I really like my class at school, the first day I wasn't sure because they weren't like my friends back home but now I think I just needed to have more of an open-mind. Sure they’re different to my friends in NZ but that’s good because this whole thing is about doing new things and meeting new people. The class has about 25 students and only 2 of them are boys which seems crazy but it’s a human science school and apparently most guys choose technical, or science/math schools.

Everyone in the class is so lovely and they were all so interested in New Zealand. I brought in the yearbook from my school and suddenly the whole class was a swarm around my desk because they all wanted to have a look. They all speak some English but there’s only one girl who I can have a normal conversation with  because she spent 3 months in England last year. I've been asked about 10 times how Australia is, or what my school is like in Australia especially on the first couple of days hahaha. My teachers all seem nice enough for now too.

The school gym
The actual school is very plain and boring because it’s very focused on academics and nothing else. There’s no sports in the school or any clubs, it’s literally go to school, learn and go home. I guess it’s good because the teachers can put everything into the academics but then I like school in NZ because it’s not just about the grades it’s about the whole thing, there’s so much you can do and so many more opportunities. The classrooms here are so bare. There’s a blackboard, a cross, a map of the world and a no smoking sign and that’s literally it on the walls. It’s very boring and again I guess it’s so you focus on your work but every little thing helps to make it more interesting and I think that if these kids went to school in NZ, or another country, for a day they would never want to go back to Italian school. For me it’s okay because I’m here to learn about the differences, meet the people and learn the language but for the kids who have had to come here every day for years and who actually have to try and learn from their teachers I don’t know how they do it.

One day at dinner my host family were asking me about school in NZ and when I had finished explaining the differences my host Mum was like “and do you like school in NZ?” and when I thought about it I actually kind of did. I didn't jump out of bed every morning excited about school but when I was there I don’t think there was ever a day where there wasn't some laughing and actual interesting lessons so yeah I think I did like it really.

I don't want to make the school sound really bad because it really isn't. It’s just very, very different to what I’m used to and I think it's going to take some time to become accustomed to it. 

These are some differences I've noticed in the school so far:
  • The teachers are the ones who  move around classes, not the students. Also the students stay with the same class for the whole 5 years of high school.
  • We have school on Saturday!!!
  • There’s only one building at my school and it’s 3 storeys high (I’m on the third floor so it means a lot of stairs every day!). It sounds like this is what it’s like at most schools which means you’re stuck inside all day.
  •  There’s no technology in the school so it’s just a blackboard in the class for the teacher. None of the students have laptops with them and some of the teachers have iPads but apparently that’s a new thing this year and barely any of the teachers even use them. I never thought Smart Boards were useful until now that we don’t have one and I realise how great they were to have in the class!
  • There’s no posters or anything in the class, it’s just bare. Also only 2 windows so it’s pretty dark and they always seem to have the lights on.
  • Only 2 boys in the whole class of about 25!
  • The most popular brand of bags is ‘Eastpak’ and almost everyone in the school except me seems to have them.
  • The desks are in rows so there’s no table groups like we have in most classes in NZ.
  • They have no smoking signs everywhere which is kind of strange because you wouldn't think they would even need them. Being a school it seems kind of obvious…
  • The teachers just talk the whole lesson! There’s never handouts, or activities, or group work or going to the library, or ICT or anything it’s literally teacher comes in, talks for 45 minutes and leaves. The other day one of my teachers just read out a book the whole lesson! There was no point her even turning up haha
  • Instead of choosing subjects at school, you choose your school. There are scientific schools, linguistic schools, human science schools, classical schools, art schools etc.
  • It’s pretty strict no phones. In NZ we’re not allowed phones but that doesn't mean we don’t use them and most of the teachers don’t even mind as long as we do the work but here I haven’t seen one person on their phone! It’s good I guess but I feel like at the schools in NZ if you’re given more freedom you learn to make your own decisions whereas if there’s heaps of rules and it’s all so straight forward you don’t learn life skills and whatnot you literally learn maths and English and go home.
  • Most of the teachers call the students by their last names, other than my English teacher who likes to point at people and say “him” or “her”.
  • There’s no tuck-shop but there’s a vending machine which has the cheapest iced tea ever! Only 0.80 which is about $1.50NZ for a bottle! I think a lot of my money will be going on iced tea…

I really like my class and I’m so happy with it all but it’s very different to my school in NZ. I do however think the whole system could be improved so much, it’s incredibly old fashioned, but then there’s endless things that could be improved at my school in NZ too, I guess it's just because I’m use to them that I don’t see them as easily.

I’m starting to understand way more in class but I think because at the start I barely understood a thing I've learnt to block out the voices because they’re useless and don’t make sense to me and now that they actually do make sense I have to tell myself to focus and listen instead of daydreaming all lesson. It’s like the cicadas, you learn to block the noise out because you’re so used to hearing it and it’s so pointless to listen to and you really have to focus if you actually want to hear them. Well the cicadas are my Italian teachers haha.


I'm really bad at remembering to take photos but here’s some of other things I've been up to in the past week:

My host Mum took me to a nearby town called 'Forli'
Forli

Forli
Inside a church in Forli
Forli

My host Dad made me a name card for the dinner table from a advert for 'Kimberly-Clark' in the newspaper haha
My bedroom
Mt bedroom again
Me eating gelato in Cesena
Cesena - my town
My piadina - piadina's are one of Emilia-Romagna's specialties and they are so yum!!
Lucia and Marta at the piadina restaurant we went to in Cesenatico
Me on the way to my first day of school on the scooter. Oh so Italian!
Ida and I did a marathon (walking hahaha) to Cesenatico and we came across this house on the way
Pomegranate tree on the marathon route 
Ida and I in the reflection
Me during the marathon
Ida during the marathon
View along the way...
Another view along the way
We finished the marathon! WOOHOO! Free tshirts and all!!
The view of Cesena and beyond from a restaurant I went to with my host family in an old castle
My pizza at the castle restaurant - eggplant mmmmm
Gelato, decisions decisions...
Day trip to Rimini
In Rimini
The 3 amiche of Cesena in Rimini
Cesena/Rimini chapters in Rimini
Gelatoooooo in Rimini!! Mine is the cone with pistachio, strawberry and lemon meringue
Rimini
Ida and Fran in Rimini

Sunday, 15 September 2013

La Prima Settimana con la mia Famiglia Ospitante

Today marks 1 week at my host family, and 10 days in Italy! So far I love it so much and I honestly can't write down everything that's happened because I would be here all day but I'm going to write the highlights for me so far :)

My chicken salad
Cool lights
The first day at my host family my host sister, Marta and I met my host Mum and her friends for lunch in the center. The lunch was great but the most amazing bit was... we went on Marta's scooter! I sat on the back and it was so cool, I could see all around Cesena on the way and ahhh I just loved it so much, felt so Italian. The cafe was so cute! It was decorated so nicely with rope and loose lightbulbs hanging from the ceiling if that makes sense and all sorts of cool decor. I ordered insalata di pollo (chicken salad). It was honestly ammmmmaazinnng! Even though it was just a chicken salad it was the best chicken salad in the world I'm sure. I rode home with Marta on the scooter which I love so, so, so much! They don't wear any protective gear apart from a helmet thank god because it's so hot but I felt weird riding with shorts and a singlet on anyway.
Cesenatico
The same day I went to the beach with my host Mum where I met some of my other host sister who is in Honduras' friends. The beach was called Cesenatico and so different to NZ! We had to wade out really far before it was deep enough to swim. Everyone else thought it was cold but compared to the temperature we normally swim at in nz it was really warm. Everyone at the beach was so tanned, and I mean everyone! It didn't bother me much it was just so strange to be the only pale one on the whole beach and it was one big beach. The beach was covered in loungers and umbrellas, also with a volleyball court and shops on the beach. Also I didn't get burnt and this is pretty huge for me since I wasn't being very careful either, and it was way hotter than in NZ. A man came up to us trying to sell us jewellery at one point too. So different to a kiwi beach.
My gelato mmmmm
One of my host sister's friends called Giorgia was so lovely and we went to get gelato together. Giorgia has a beach house in Cesenatico so she goes there every year for the summer and knows the area really well. She said she has tried all of the gelato shops and the one we went to was the best by far. I chose pesca e mela verde (peach and green apple) and it was so tasty. I can't even describe it it was like doughy almost but in a delicious way. We went swimming and saw the Italian lifeguards who are on those kind of boats which you stand up on and paddle. We also saw a huge jelly fish in the water about 40cm across, it was the biggest one I've ever seen!


When we arrived home Marta was making dinner and they told me that 2 of her friends, Federico and Lucia were coming over. After dinner we had planned to watch 'Across the Universe' but it was 11 by the time we finished so Federico said he would take Marta, Lucia and I for a drive so we could listen to some music and I could see more of the town at night. I sat in the front because in his words "it's the best experience". His car was so posh and they told me he also has a red Vespa! So jealous!
He told me I could be DJ and first I played Lorde because I'd just been telling Marta about her that day. They all seemed to like her music and we had it up so loud it was amazing! They all have really good music taste. They all said they like the Naked and Famous too so we had Young Blood blaring for a while and I felt like I was in a movie hahaha I seriously did, it was so much fun. He drove us up to the church in Cesena which is on a really high hill and you could see the whole town. We all talked, mostly in English though and if not it was always Marta as a translator because the other two have limited English. We must have been out about an hour and a half just driving, talking and listening to the music. All in all it was such a great night, I'm so lucky to have such an amazing host sister.
Cesena by night

The next day in the evening Marta and I went to Federico's house to watch a movie. We were going to watch Monsters University but we couldn't find a good stream so after trying out some other movies we ended up watching music videos and videos from concerts that Federico has been to, which were a lot haha. I think I'm going to have a much better music taste after this year. It was about 1am when we left and Federico drove us home with his usual scary driving, not fast or anything but he just takes his hands off the wheel ALL THE TIME.
The next morning I woke up and went down for breakfast. I love Italian breakfast! They eat the type of stuff that we would have for dessert in NZ; cake, chocolate, biscuits etc. Next I got ready and Chiara took me to Cesena on the way to work. There I met Giorgia and her family. Her sister Viola is also super nice and I can't believe I was worried about what Italian teenagers would be like, they are all so sweet. I liked the market but I don't know if I'll buy much there. It all seems like made in china cheap clothing but there were some nice things like scarves and jewelry.

On Thursday Chiara's Mum came to stay until this morning and she's like the typical Italian Nonna! She was so lovely but only spoke Italian. She still talked to me so much even though I barely understood a thing haha. She told me that next time she comes we will have a full conversation, but Chiara told me that's in 2 weeks so I highly doubt that...
Cesena fountain and our new cafe

Another day I biked into Cesena to meet my friend, Ida from Denmark. I had been shown the way once by Chiara and the journey should have taken me about 25 minutes by bike BUT it took me around 45. I didn't have much trouble to get to Cesena but I got to the barierra which is one of the main landmarks and couldn't find my way to the fountain where we had arranged to meet. I walked around trying to find the way until I finally used my Italian "tu parli inglese?" Hahaha and I found the way. I was so relieved to see Ida and her host sister!!
Ida and I went into a little cafe "bar piccolo" in the square because we didn't want to go far and get lost haha. We ordered "due cappuccini" and sat outside to drink them. We decided this would be our usual cafe and we would meet there once a week or so, and especially once just before we leave Italy to mark the beginning and the end of our adventure here. We both feel so at home here it's strange because we feel like we've been here forever and don't have any worries really. I'm so excited for the year ahead!
Our coffee
When we reached my bike again the chain had come off so I had to put that back on and was so black after but we said goodbye and I started to bike home. BUT I got lost again! I think I just took one wrong turn but I ended up biking for 35 minutes before I decided to start again from the fountain. When I got home Chiara and Marta were opening the door to come out and find me! I felt so bad but they were just laughing and saying it didn't matter. To add to the fact I got lost my chain came off the bike so when I got back I was half black with the oil stuff after putting it back on hahahhaa. Even though it was annoying getting lost the whole time I was thinking "I'm going to laugh about this so much later" and I know my real family in NZ will be laughing at me when they read this too. Now that it's happened I'm happy I got lost because I don't think I'll do it again and it's going to be a great story to tell.


Another day I went to IKEA with my host family and this won't seem like a highlight for most people but I'm putting this in here for my Mum because she'll be really excited. We had lunch there too and it was so yum. I had a tomato and eggplant pasta mmmmmmmmm.
Fran, Ida and I at the AFS meeting

Today we had our first AFS meeting which was with all of the students from Forli, Cesena, Ravenna and Rimini I think. We had to introduce ourselves in Italian and then we all just hung out, had a shared lunch and went to the beach. It was heaps of fun and they said that they would be arranging trips for us woohoo.
Bombolone
Another highlight is one word, FOOD! I've tried so many new things since being in Italy and surprisingly (Min) I have liked everything :O Chiara took me to her favourite cafe one day and I tried a real Italian coffee which was in a teeny cup and only came up about 2cm. It was really yum but pretty different to what I'm used to. One day Gabriella (Nonna) made pasta and I think it was the first time I have tried homemade pasta and it was delicious! They told me that it is a traditional dish of Emilia-Romagna, the pasta had pumpkin and meat sauce inside and is called "Cappellacci con Zucca". Another thing I've tried is Bombolone which is a pastry thing with custardy cream inside, apparently it's typically Italian. Then obviously pizza, gelato mmmmm I'm hungry thinking about this... but yeah I'm trying to give everything a go, today I even had a piece of quiche which I liked and I normally hate egg so yeah all Italian food is good. So, so, so good!

Sunday, 8 September 2013

Orientation, Rome, Pizza, Host Family and New Experiences

So I'm writing this safely in Italy! I love it here, it's a-m-a-z-i-n-g. Along the journey I kept a diary on my phone so I'll just publish the most important parts of that for this post :)

Kiwi students headed for Europe on the same day at Auckland Airport
On Thursday we left New Zealand bound for Rome. When we arrived at Auckland airport there were a group of Spanish students who were going home, as well as some of the students going with me to Italy, Spain, France and Germany. It was so nice to see them all because we met earlier in the year at the orientation camp!

When it came time to go through security we all said goodbye to our families and had a talk from the AFS volunteer about safe travelling etc. A couple of people were a bit teary eyed but not as much as I thought. I went through security with Holly (Sardinia) because we were the only ones without kiwi passports. The lady in the x-ray machine seemed to be worried that Holly had had a pen in her bag which was strange haha...

We met the others at our gate (about 20 of us in total) and waited for the first leg of our journey to Melbourne. I sat next to Gregory and Hannah and Lilly was on the other side of Gregory in the 4 seats in the middle of the plane. In front of us was everyone else going to Italy - Dali, Tilly, Holly and Te Arahi. On this flight I watched Monsters University in Italian and slept a bit. The flight was quite nice and it's fun having people to talk to. The kids going to the other European countries were on the same flight but sat in different areas. 
Lilly, Holly and I in Melbourne

When we arrived in Melbourne we were all quite relieved to be off the plane I think! I got some Pringles which were $7 something!! The others bought some food too and it was funny us all trying to pay in different currencies and the man trying to work it all out hahahaha.

The next flight was about 15 hours - from Melbourne to Dubai, on Emirates again. This flight actually went really fast I thought which was strange because I normally absolutely HATE long flights! I watched some movies and tv shows that I had loaded on my phone. We all also slept a lot because this flight was in the evening and they had the lights dimmed which made it quite cosy, or as cosy as a plane can be. I was so relieved when we landed in Dubai! That long flight was over and we only had the 6 hour one to Rome to go! I also couldn't wait to get washed in Dubai and get a proper drink and food hallelujah!

Dubai
Dubai airport was absolutely massive! We had to catch a train to our gate plus elevators and walking heaps, it was like its own city. Holly, Hannah, Lilly and I stuck together and went and got smoothies. We then went on a looooooong walkabout trying to find McDonald's. When we got to the gate all of the other Italian kiwi students were there so we sat down with them and also a group of Italian afsers on their way home from Australia! One of the girls is from Cesena and she knows my host family which was so cool.

We all boarded the plane to Rome and this time the two rows had reversed the seats so Lilly, Hannah, Gregory and I were sitting in front of the others. This flight went in a blur, I think the tiredness and need for showers was quite overwhelming and we all just wanted to get to Rome finally. I honestly can't even remember what I did on this flight, we all talked quite a bit about different aspects of the exchange and I think I watched some more tv shows on the plane screen. There were these awesome cameras which you could view from your screen - one looking down from beneath the plane, one looking across from the tail and another one. When we caught out first glimpse of Italy from them it was amazing!! We also flew over the Colosseum which was so cool. 
Kiwis on the plane minus Gregory and Holly

We landed in Rome in the afternoon and after going through the airport check, went to get our luggage. An AFS lady was waiting for us and she said we had to wait for a couple more groups of students to arrive before we could leave. She then took us out into the entrance where other AFS people were waiting. I felt so gross because of not showering and the heat was so overwhelming! We were super thirsty as well which didn't help, but so happy to finally be IN Italy. 

After meeting some other students and talking a bit they lead us outside where it was 10X hotter. We then walked to the busses and were so grateful to find they had air conditioning yayayayayay!!! The drive to the place where the orientation was held was about 20 minutes and I sat next to Holly. We went past so many flower stalls it was crazy! Italians must really like their flowers. The scenery was so beautiful and it was interesting to see them driving on the other side of the road to NZ. Something I noticed was how flat and dry the land that we drove through was, although where we actually stayed was more hilly. There also a lot of stick kind of trees rather than bush like in New Zealand. We also saw a shirtless old man driving which seemed like a typical Italian image, but I can't blame him - it was so, so hot! 

We arrived at the camp and got lead to a place to drop off our big cases ready for departure on Sunday. They then gave us some important papers, an Italian Inturcultura top and our room keys. I was sharing with Lilly which was so great. Arriving here was quite overwhelming and everything was new and out of the ordinary to me so it was nice to have someone from home to share it with and make things seem more normal. That's another thing about the camp, although I met so many people from other countries it was so nice to have the kiwis to talk to when I wanted to.

After taking much needed showers and unpacking the essentials we went to the dining hall for dinner. Dinner was bread, pasta, salad, pork and peaches but they were all served as different courses. After this we had free time but I think all of the kiwis went to bed because we were exhausted from the 30+ hours travelling. I woke up a few times in the night and thought it was morning but I think that was just because the walls are paper thin and you can hear everyone, rather than jetlag so much. I'm not sure if this was a dream or not... But I may have woken up feeling really sick but the butterflies kind like I was really scared about everything. I thought it was a dream because I don't really feel scared but then thinking about it I feel like it was so real so I don't know hahaha, it's honestly all a blur.

Me at the orientation in Rome
After breakfast the next morning we all met in a huge room with seats and listened to a lady talk to us about what was happening that day. She explained that we would be separated into small language groups and spoken to about rules and that sort of thing. My group was E5, with Te Arahi another kiwi. In this group I also met a girl called Ida from Denmark who's going to be living in Cesena. We played name games and they talked to us about rules and then had a much needed water and peach break. The water tastes really different here, I don't quite know what it is about it but it has an after taste and almost tastes musky. I thought it was just the tap water at the hotel but we got given bottled water today and it tasted the same. I'm sure we'll get used to the taste really soon but at the moment it's super different. The peaches were soooo good, really juicy and I'm hoping that's an Italian thing and not just the particular ones they bought because I could really get used to those mmmmmm. We then played a huge game of bang on the field and met some more people from different countries. There's 40 something students here from America, and then smaller numbers from all of the other countries like Russia, Thailand, Bolivia, Croatia, Australia, Japan, Germany, Chile...

The hotel
The place we're staying at is so beautiful! It's a 'hotel' (later we found out it was a nunnery place) but so totally different to an average hotel. There's lots of houses and then rooms inside the houses with 2 beds and a bathroom which is where we all sleep. These houses are spread out a whole load and in between there's lots of other buildings and grassy areas. It's so cool and the architecture is so Italian. It almost seems like a boarding school kind of thing. Holly, Lilly and I walked around earlier to take photos of the buildings etc. 

Lunch was pretty much the same as dinner last night - pasta, pork, salad, bread, chips and watermelon. One huge difference I found to NZ food-wise is how many carbs there are in one meal. I knew that Italians ate a lot of carbs but I thought I wouldn't notice it much because I'm used to eating pasta, rice, potato or bread with dinner every night at home but here it's not one or the other it's just all of them. We had 3 with lunch today! I don't know if that's normal yet but I guess I'll find out once I get to my host family. 

Holly and Lilly outside our 'house' in Rome
After lunch we got separated into groups again but this time for place that were going. I was in 3 - centro east. This part was really cool because we met the people in our local chapters and the ones travelling with us tomorrow. In my chapter there's 4 students from New Zealand (me), Chile, Denmark and Germany. They all seem really nice so that's great. Dinner was then followed by a welcome ceremony, where the head of AFS Intercultura (the Italian AFS) spoke to us about our year ahead. He went through all the countries there and we had to stand up when we were called. He made a special mention for NZ because we travelled the furthest out of everyone there! 

The next morning Lilly had to leave for her host family at about 6 o'clock and it was strange saying goodbye for a whole year. I feel like I'll see her again soon but I won't. I couldn't get back to sleep after that, my mind was going wild thinking about this next year. After I'd been laying there for about an hour Holly knocked on my door because Tilly had left and she was alone in her room too. I got ready and we went to buy Internet for an hour. Hannah came and we had breakfast with 2 girls from America and then Holly and I went back to my room (with some Nutella packets as souvenirs of course) and talked. We bought some postcards which turned out to be one of the funniest experiences ever because the lady at the desk only spoke Italian and we were trying to buy stamps for New Zealand. She was trying to sell Holly 2 at 2 euros when she only wanted one, going "due... quattro" every time Holly said "uno". It was hilarious we were both in floods of laughter when we asked one of the Italian volunteers to talk to her for us. 

When the time came for me leave I felt happy but so sad at the same time. This camp has been great and I love meeting everyone from all around the world, but I also have loved having the kiwis to talk to because we're all going through the same thing and the whole group was quite close after all of the flights and camp in NZ. I'll definitely miss them a whole bunch  

I think I should be feeling more than I am. Before coming I thought that it would hit me and kept saying when I thought it would like last day of school, or when I started packing or whatever but it never really did and even now when I'm here I'm doing the same thing. I'm thinking when I get to my host family it'll hit me, or on the first day of school but to be honest I don't think it'll ever hit me. This is such a big thing and although I know the year will go so fast it's still a year which is a long time and I can't quite comprehend that - at least not just yet. I think I really need to take everyday as it comes and just see what happens next.

This next part was written after I arrived at my host family in Cesena:

One of the views out of the train
The train ride to my town was really long. We left the camp in Rome at 12pm and reached Cesena at around 7:40pm. It went really fast because I was with a large group, and 3 others in the same chapter who are all really lovely - Ida, Francisca and Jan. On the first train a Rome tour guide came and sat next to us and talked for hours, giving us tips for if we visit Rome. She was so friendly! Other than that we all discussed our exchanges and talked about our home countries. The train was packed and boiling hot, especially the 2nd one wow. 

It was so cool seeing AFS students getting off the train because we would all watch them meet their host families and it was so nice. Most of them would run to hug them and some had posters or even flowers for them. Cesena was one of the last stops and when it came time for the four of us to get off we were feeling excited and a bit nervous. Our host families all came up to us together, my host mum was holding a banner with all of our names on but I saw my host sister, Marta, first. Everyone introduced themselves and hugs were exchanged then we were asked if we wanted to go for pizza or if we were too tired. We were all so tired but how could you turn down proper Italian pizza?! Francisca had to go but we weren't sure why because our Italian is super bad but Ida, Jan and I along with our host families went in the cars to a cute little pizzeria not far from the train station. 
My first Italian pizza

The pizzeria was down some stairs and it was quite busy. They introduced Ida, Jan and I to the owner and he was saying "benvenuto!". Very, very Italian I loved it! We all sat together at a huge table and talked the whole time. Marta said that they would talk English to us tonight because we were tired but tomorrow the Italian would start so that should be interesting. When they were all talking in Italian though it was really cool because we could recognise some words and sometimes make sense of what they were saying by those words alone. 

Ida and her pizza
The owner said that they would bring out some specialties for us which were a big ball of cheese and i wish i could remember which kind but i can't haha it was really good though, very different to any cheese I've ever tried. The other plate had a bunch of different things on it. Some fried tomato rice sort of thing, fried pizza balls and some other things. I then ordered my pizza which was Margarita and it was AMAZING! The base and the cheese were especially good and trust me I am not a cheese person but that cheese was so, so, so good! Also the water was good! What a relief. 
View from the lounge

When we said goodbye to Ida, Jan and their families any doubts I had were gone. My host family is the best! When we got back my host mum gave me a tour of the apartment and it's so lovely, really modern. The upstairs is just mine and Marta's, with our bedrooms and a bathroom. My bedroom is HUGE! I'll post a photo it's like my dream bedroom haha. 

Monday, 2 September 2013

Expectations and Hopes for my New Italian Life

I saw someone do this on another blog before they went on their exchange and it was really cool seeing if their expectations were accurate after living in their host country for a while. I'm going to do it but more just my hopes of my exchange because after the orientation camp back in May I ditched a lot of my expectations, and they got downgraded to hopes haha

Hopes/Expectations:
1. To speak fluent Italian when I get home
2. To have an amazingly life changing time
3. To not have a hard time with homesickness (I've never really been homesick before but I guess I will since this is such a long time, so this is more of a hope than an expectation. I think I'll get the culture shock pretty bad and miss home but I don't know when that would become homesickness...)
4. To do lots of shopping
5. To become more confident in my choices and those sorts of things...
6. To make new friends from Italy, and around the world (this is definitely a hope more than an expectation hahaha, this year will be extremely hard if I'm friendless...)
7. To visit the Leaning Tower of Pisa (I realllllly hope I get to go here! It's under 3 hours from where I'll be living so hopefully sometime in the year. If I do I promise to take a undoubtedly fail photo of me holding it up :))
8. To visit Pompeii (I would so love to go here too but it's ages from where I'm living so maybe another time)
9. To take a gazillion photos
11. To limit my time on Facebook (I really hope I actually do this and don't waste time on it when I've been so lucky to get this opportunity)
12. To join a sports team (apparently everyone gets fat on exchange, hence the Another Fat Student abbreviation for AFS, so this should help with that and also meeting new people)
13. TO EAT LOTS OF PIZZA!! YAY!!

Under 3 days to go! I started packing today but it's pretty hard when I've already gotten rid of almost of the clothes I'm not taking with me, but I'm hoping to put the stuff I'm using now in on Wednesday so it's all done for the departure on Thursday. 

On Friday I signed out of school with my friend Lilly, who's also going to Italy. We both thought that would make it all sink in and I thought it did for a very brief moment but then it went back to really not seeming real. What that last day of school did do though was make me realise how much I'm going to miss my friends in NZ :( I got one of my school tops signed and reading the messages at the end of the day was actually really sad realising I couldn't experience this next year with them :(

At the moment it's not seeming real at all which I'm really disappointed about because I love the feeling of excitement I normally get when something cool is happening. I just wish I was feeling something, even nerves would be better than nothing :( I went to Rotorua this weekend with my family and when we said goodbye to my Auntie, Uncle and Cousin the "See you next year"'s seemed crazy because I kept thinking "Of course I'll see them again before I leave. We'll go for an impromptu curry one weekend..." but there's no more weekends, no more mondays, no more fridays. Just 3 days :O