Sunday, 15 September 2013

La Prima Settimana con la mia Famiglia Ospitante

Today marks 1 week at my host family, and 10 days in Italy! So far I love it so much and I honestly can't write down everything that's happened because I would be here all day but I'm going to write the highlights for me so far :)

My chicken salad
Cool lights
The first day at my host family my host sister, Marta and I met my host Mum and her friends for lunch in the center. The lunch was great but the most amazing bit was... we went on Marta's scooter! I sat on the back and it was so cool, I could see all around Cesena on the way and ahhh I just loved it so much, felt so Italian. The cafe was so cute! It was decorated so nicely with rope and loose lightbulbs hanging from the ceiling if that makes sense and all sorts of cool decor. I ordered insalata di pollo (chicken salad). It was honestly ammmmmaazinnng! Even though it was just a chicken salad it was the best chicken salad in the world I'm sure. I rode home with Marta on the scooter which I love so, so, so much! They don't wear any protective gear apart from a helmet thank god because it's so hot but I felt weird riding with shorts and a singlet on anyway.
Cesenatico
The same day I went to the beach with my host Mum where I met some of my other host sister who is in Honduras' friends. The beach was called Cesenatico and so different to NZ! We had to wade out really far before it was deep enough to swim. Everyone else thought it was cold but compared to the temperature we normally swim at in nz it was really warm. Everyone at the beach was so tanned, and I mean everyone! It didn't bother me much it was just so strange to be the only pale one on the whole beach and it was one big beach. The beach was covered in loungers and umbrellas, also with a volleyball court and shops on the beach. Also I didn't get burnt and this is pretty huge for me since I wasn't being very careful either, and it was way hotter than in NZ. A man came up to us trying to sell us jewellery at one point too. So different to a kiwi beach.
My gelato mmmmm
One of my host sister's friends called Giorgia was so lovely and we went to get gelato together. Giorgia has a beach house in Cesenatico so she goes there every year for the summer and knows the area really well. She said she has tried all of the gelato shops and the one we went to was the best by far. I chose pesca e mela verde (peach and green apple) and it was so tasty. I can't even describe it it was like doughy almost but in a delicious way. We went swimming and saw the Italian lifeguards who are on those kind of boats which you stand up on and paddle. We also saw a huge jelly fish in the water about 40cm across, it was the biggest one I've ever seen!


When we arrived home Marta was making dinner and they told me that 2 of her friends, Federico and Lucia were coming over. After dinner we had planned to watch 'Across the Universe' but it was 11 by the time we finished so Federico said he would take Marta, Lucia and I for a drive so we could listen to some music and I could see more of the town at night. I sat in the front because in his words "it's the best experience". His car was so posh and they told me he also has a red Vespa! So jealous!
He told me I could be DJ and first I played Lorde because I'd just been telling Marta about her that day. They all seemed to like her music and we had it up so loud it was amazing! They all have really good music taste. They all said they like the Naked and Famous too so we had Young Blood blaring for a while and I felt like I was in a movie hahaha I seriously did, it was so much fun. He drove us up to the church in Cesena which is on a really high hill and you could see the whole town. We all talked, mostly in English though and if not it was always Marta as a translator because the other two have limited English. We must have been out about an hour and a half just driving, talking and listening to the music. All in all it was such a great night, I'm so lucky to have such an amazing host sister.
Cesena by night

The next day in the evening Marta and I went to Federico's house to watch a movie. We were going to watch Monsters University but we couldn't find a good stream so after trying out some other movies we ended up watching music videos and videos from concerts that Federico has been to, which were a lot haha. I think I'm going to have a much better music taste after this year. It was about 1am when we left and Federico drove us home with his usual scary driving, not fast or anything but he just takes his hands off the wheel ALL THE TIME.
The next morning I woke up and went down for breakfast. I love Italian breakfast! They eat the type of stuff that we would have for dessert in NZ; cake, chocolate, biscuits etc. Next I got ready and Chiara took me to Cesena on the way to work. There I met Giorgia and her family. Her sister Viola is also super nice and I can't believe I was worried about what Italian teenagers would be like, they are all so sweet. I liked the market but I don't know if I'll buy much there. It all seems like made in china cheap clothing but there were some nice things like scarves and jewelry.

On Thursday Chiara's Mum came to stay until this morning and she's like the typical Italian Nonna! She was so lovely but only spoke Italian. She still talked to me so much even though I barely understood a thing haha. She told me that next time she comes we will have a full conversation, but Chiara told me that's in 2 weeks so I highly doubt that...
Cesena fountain and our new cafe

Another day I biked into Cesena to meet my friend, Ida from Denmark. I had been shown the way once by Chiara and the journey should have taken me about 25 minutes by bike BUT it took me around 45. I didn't have much trouble to get to Cesena but I got to the barierra which is one of the main landmarks and couldn't find my way to the fountain where we had arranged to meet. I walked around trying to find the way until I finally used my Italian "tu parli inglese?" Hahaha and I found the way. I was so relieved to see Ida and her host sister!!
Ida and I went into a little cafe "bar piccolo" in the square because we didn't want to go far and get lost haha. We ordered "due cappuccini" and sat outside to drink them. We decided this would be our usual cafe and we would meet there once a week or so, and especially once just before we leave Italy to mark the beginning and the end of our adventure here. We both feel so at home here it's strange because we feel like we've been here forever and don't have any worries really. I'm so excited for the year ahead!
Our coffee
When we reached my bike again the chain had come off so I had to put that back on and was so black after but we said goodbye and I started to bike home. BUT I got lost again! I think I just took one wrong turn but I ended up biking for 35 minutes before I decided to start again from the fountain. When I got home Chiara and Marta were opening the door to come out and find me! I felt so bad but they were just laughing and saying it didn't matter. To add to the fact I got lost my chain came off the bike so when I got back I was half black with the oil stuff after putting it back on hahahhaa. Even though it was annoying getting lost the whole time I was thinking "I'm going to laugh about this so much later" and I know my real family in NZ will be laughing at me when they read this too. Now that it's happened I'm happy I got lost because I don't think I'll do it again and it's going to be a great story to tell.


Another day I went to IKEA with my host family and this won't seem like a highlight for most people but I'm putting this in here for my Mum because she'll be really excited. We had lunch there too and it was so yum. I had a tomato and eggplant pasta mmmmmmmmm.
Fran, Ida and I at the AFS meeting

Today we had our first AFS meeting which was with all of the students from Forli, Cesena, Ravenna and Rimini I think. We had to introduce ourselves in Italian and then we all just hung out, had a shared lunch and went to the beach. It was heaps of fun and they said that they would be arranging trips for us woohoo.
Bombolone
Another highlight is one word, FOOD! I've tried so many new things since being in Italy and surprisingly (Min) I have liked everything :O Chiara took me to her favourite cafe one day and I tried a real Italian coffee which was in a teeny cup and only came up about 2cm. It was really yum but pretty different to what I'm used to. One day Gabriella (Nonna) made pasta and I think it was the first time I have tried homemade pasta and it was delicious! They told me that it is a traditional dish of Emilia-Romagna, the pasta had pumpkin and meat sauce inside and is called "Cappellacci con Zucca". Another thing I've tried is Bombolone which is a pastry thing with custardy cream inside, apparently it's typically Italian. Then obviously pizza, gelato mmmmm I'm hungry thinking about this... but yeah I'm trying to give everything a go, today I even had a piece of quiche which I liked and I normally hate egg so yeah all Italian food is good. So, so, so good!

Sunday, 8 September 2013

Orientation, Rome, Pizza, Host Family and New Experiences

So I'm writing this safely in Italy! I love it here, it's a-m-a-z-i-n-g. Along the journey I kept a diary on my phone so I'll just publish the most important parts of that for this post :)

Kiwi students headed for Europe on the same day at Auckland Airport
On Thursday we left New Zealand bound for Rome. When we arrived at Auckland airport there were a group of Spanish students who were going home, as well as some of the students going with me to Italy, Spain, France and Germany. It was so nice to see them all because we met earlier in the year at the orientation camp!

When it came time to go through security we all said goodbye to our families and had a talk from the AFS volunteer about safe travelling etc. A couple of people were a bit teary eyed but not as much as I thought. I went through security with Holly (Sardinia) because we were the only ones without kiwi passports. The lady in the x-ray machine seemed to be worried that Holly had had a pen in her bag which was strange haha...

We met the others at our gate (about 20 of us in total) and waited for the first leg of our journey to Melbourne. I sat next to Gregory and Hannah and Lilly was on the other side of Gregory in the 4 seats in the middle of the plane. In front of us was everyone else going to Italy - Dali, Tilly, Holly and Te Arahi. On this flight I watched Monsters University in Italian and slept a bit. The flight was quite nice and it's fun having people to talk to. The kids going to the other European countries were on the same flight but sat in different areas. 
Lilly, Holly and I in Melbourne

When we arrived in Melbourne we were all quite relieved to be off the plane I think! I got some Pringles which were $7 something!! The others bought some food too and it was funny us all trying to pay in different currencies and the man trying to work it all out hahahaha.

The next flight was about 15 hours - from Melbourne to Dubai, on Emirates again. This flight actually went really fast I thought which was strange because I normally absolutely HATE long flights! I watched some movies and tv shows that I had loaded on my phone. We all also slept a lot because this flight was in the evening and they had the lights dimmed which made it quite cosy, or as cosy as a plane can be. I was so relieved when we landed in Dubai! That long flight was over and we only had the 6 hour one to Rome to go! I also couldn't wait to get washed in Dubai and get a proper drink and food hallelujah!

Dubai
Dubai airport was absolutely massive! We had to catch a train to our gate plus elevators and walking heaps, it was like its own city. Holly, Hannah, Lilly and I stuck together and went and got smoothies. We then went on a looooooong walkabout trying to find McDonald's. When we got to the gate all of the other Italian kiwi students were there so we sat down with them and also a group of Italian afsers on their way home from Australia! One of the girls is from Cesena and she knows my host family which was so cool.

We all boarded the plane to Rome and this time the two rows had reversed the seats so Lilly, Hannah, Gregory and I were sitting in front of the others. This flight went in a blur, I think the tiredness and need for showers was quite overwhelming and we all just wanted to get to Rome finally. I honestly can't even remember what I did on this flight, we all talked quite a bit about different aspects of the exchange and I think I watched some more tv shows on the plane screen. There were these awesome cameras which you could view from your screen - one looking down from beneath the plane, one looking across from the tail and another one. When we caught out first glimpse of Italy from them it was amazing!! We also flew over the Colosseum which was so cool. 
Kiwis on the plane minus Gregory and Holly

We landed in Rome in the afternoon and after going through the airport check, went to get our luggage. An AFS lady was waiting for us and she said we had to wait for a couple more groups of students to arrive before we could leave. She then took us out into the entrance where other AFS people were waiting. I felt so gross because of not showering and the heat was so overwhelming! We were super thirsty as well which didn't help, but so happy to finally be IN Italy. 

After meeting some other students and talking a bit they lead us outside where it was 10X hotter. We then walked to the busses and were so grateful to find they had air conditioning yayayayayay!!! The drive to the place where the orientation was held was about 20 minutes and I sat next to Holly. We went past so many flower stalls it was crazy! Italians must really like their flowers. The scenery was so beautiful and it was interesting to see them driving on the other side of the road to NZ. Something I noticed was how flat and dry the land that we drove through was, although where we actually stayed was more hilly. There also a lot of stick kind of trees rather than bush like in New Zealand. We also saw a shirtless old man driving which seemed like a typical Italian image, but I can't blame him - it was so, so hot! 

We arrived at the camp and got lead to a place to drop off our big cases ready for departure on Sunday. They then gave us some important papers, an Italian Inturcultura top and our room keys. I was sharing with Lilly which was so great. Arriving here was quite overwhelming and everything was new and out of the ordinary to me so it was nice to have someone from home to share it with and make things seem more normal. That's another thing about the camp, although I met so many people from other countries it was so nice to have the kiwis to talk to when I wanted to.

After taking much needed showers and unpacking the essentials we went to the dining hall for dinner. Dinner was bread, pasta, salad, pork and peaches but they were all served as different courses. After this we had free time but I think all of the kiwis went to bed because we were exhausted from the 30+ hours travelling. I woke up a few times in the night and thought it was morning but I think that was just because the walls are paper thin and you can hear everyone, rather than jetlag so much. I'm not sure if this was a dream or not... But I may have woken up feeling really sick but the butterflies kind like I was really scared about everything. I thought it was a dream because I don't really feel scared but then thinking about it I feel like it was so real so I don't know hahaha, it's honestly all a blur.

Me at the orientation in Rome
After breakfast the next morning we all met in a huge room with seats and listened to a lady talk to us about what was happening that day. She explained that we would be separated into small language groups and spoken to about rules and that sort of thing. My group was E5, with Te Arahi another kiwi. In this group I also met a girl called Ida from Denmark who's going to be living in Cesena. We played name games and they talked to us about rules and then had a much needed water and peach break. The water tastes really different here, I don't quite know what it is about it but it has an after taste and almost tastes musky. I thought it was just the tap water at the hotel but we got given bottled water today and it tasted the same. I'm sure we'll get used to the taste really soon but at the moment it's super different. The peaches were soooo good, really juicy and I'm hoping that's an Italian thing and not just the particular ones they bought because I could really get used to those mmmmmm. We then played a huge game of bang on the field and met some more people from different countries. There's 40 something students here from America, and then smaller numbers from all of the other countries like Russia, Thailand, Bolivia, Croatia, Australia, Japan, Germany, Chile...

The hotel
The place we're staying at is so beautiful! It's a 'hotel' (later we found out it was a nunnery place) but so totally different to an average hotel. There's lots of houses and then rooms inside the houses with 2 beds and a bathroom which is where we all sleep. These houses are spread out a whole load and in between there's lots of other buildings and grassy areas. It's so cool and the architecture is so Italian. It almost seems like a boarding school kind of thing. Holly, Lilly and I walked around earlier to take photos of the buildings etc. 

Lunch was pretty much the same as dinner last night - pasta, pork, salad, bread, chips and watermelon. One huge difference I found to NZ food-wise is how many carbs there are in one meal. I knew that Italians ate a lot of carbs but I thought I wouldn't notice it much because I'm used to eating pasta, rice, potato or bread with dinner every night at home but here it's not one or the other it's just all of them. We had 3 with lunch today! I don't know if that's normal yet but I guess I'll find out once I get to my host family. 

Holly and Lilly outside our 'house' in Rome
After lunch we got separated into groups again but this time for place that were going. I was in 3 - centro east. This part was really cool because we met the people in our local chapters and the ones travelling with us tomorrow. In my chapter there's 4 students from New Zealand (me), Chile, Denmark and Germany. They all seem really nice so that's great. Dinner was then followed by a welcome ceremony, where the head of AFS Intercultura (the Italian AFS) spoke to us about our year ahead. He went through all the countries there and we had to stand up when we were called. He made a special mention for NZ because we travelled the furthest out of everyone there! 

The next morning Lilly had to leave for her host family at about 6 o'clock and it was strange saying goodbye for a whole year. I feel like I'll see her again soon but I won't. I couldn't get back to sleep after that, my mind was going wild thinking about this next year. After I'd been laying there for about an hour Holly knocked on my door because Tilly had left and she was alone in her room too. I got ready and we went to buy Internet for an hour. Hannah came and we had breakfast with 2 girls from America and then Holly and I went back to my room (with some Nutella packets as souvenirs of course) and talked. We bought some postcards which turned out to be one of the funniest experiences ever because the lady at the desk only spoke Italian and we were trying to buy stamps for New Zealand. She was trying to sell Holly 2 at 2 euros when she only wanted one, going "due... quattro" every time Holly said "uno". It was hilarious we were both in floods of laughter when we asked one of the Italian volunteers to talk to her for us. 

When the time came for me leave I felt happy but so sad at the same time. This camp has been great and I love meeting everyone from all around the world, but I also have loved having the kiwis to talk to because we're all going through the same thing and the whole group was quite close after all of the flights and camp in NZ. I'll definitely miss them a whole bunch  

I think I should be feeling more than I am. Before coming I thought that it would hit me and kept saying when I thought it would like last day of school, or when I started packing or whatever but it never really did and even now when I'm here I'm doing the same thing. I'm thinking when I get to my host family it'll hit me, or on the first day of school but to be honest I don't think it'll ever hit me. This is such a big thing and although I know the year will go so fast it's still a year which is a long time and I can't quite comprehend that - at least not just yet. I think I really need to take everyday as it comes and just see what happens next.

This next part was written after I arrived at my host family in Cesena:

One of the views out of the train
The train ride to my town was really long. We left the camp in Rome at 12pm and reached Cesena at around 7:40pm. It went really fast because I was with a large group, and 3 others in the same chapter who are all really lovely - Ida, Francisca and Jan. On the first train a Rome tour guide came and sat next to us and talked for hours, giving us tips for if we visit Rome. She was so friendly! Other than that we all discussed our exchanges and talked about our home countries. The train was packed and boiling hot, especially the 2nd one wow. 

It was so cool seeing AFS students getting off the train because we would all watch them meet their host families and it was so nice. Most of them would run to hug them and some had posters or even flowers for them. Cesena was one of the last stops and when it came time for the four of us to get off we were feeling excited and a bit nervous. Our host families all came up to us together, my host mum was holding a banner with all of our names on but I saw my host sister, Marta, first. Everyone introduced themselves and hugs were exchanged then we were asked if we wanted to go for pizza or if we were too tired. We were all so tired but how could you turn down proper Italian pizza?! Francisca had to go but we weren't sure why because our Italian is super bad but Ida, Jan and I along with our host families went in the cars to a cute little pizzeria not far from the train station. 
My first Italian pizza

The pizzeria was down some stairs and it was quite busy. They introduced Ida, Jan and I to the owner and he was saying "benvenuto!". Very, very Italian I loved it! We all sat together at a huge table and talked the whole time. Marta said that they would talk English to us tonight because we were tired but tomorrow the Italian would start so that should be interesting. When they were all talking in Italian though it was really cool because we could recognise some words and sometimes make sense of what they were saying by those words alone. 

Ida and her pizza
The owner said that they would bring out some specialties for us which were a big ball of cheese and i wish i could remember which kind but i can't haha it was really good though, very different to any cheese I've ever tried. The other plate had a bunch of different things on it. Some fried tomato rice sort of thing, fried pizza balls and some other things. I then ordered my pizza which was Margarita and it was AMAZING! The base and the cheese were especially good and trust me I am not a cheese person but that cheese was so, so, so good! Also the water was good! What a relief. 
View from the lounge

When we said goodbye to Ida, Jan and their families any doubts I had were gone. My host family is the best! When we got back my host mum gave me a tour of the apartment and it's so lovely, really modern. The upstairs is just mine and Marta's, with our bedrooms and a bathroom. My bedroom is HUGE! I'll post a photo it's like my dream bedroom haha. 

Monday, 2 September 2013

Expectations and Hopes for my New Italian Life

I saw someone do this on another blog before they went on their exchange and it was really cool seeing if their expectations were accurate after living in their host country for a while. I'm going to do it but more just my hopes of my exchange because after the orientation camp back in May I ditched a lot of my expectations, and they got downgraded to hopes haha

Hopes/Expectations:
1. To speak fluent Italian when I get home
2. To have an amazingly life changing time
3. To not have a hard time with homesickness (I've never really been homesick before but I guess I will since this is such a long time, so this is more of a hope than an expectation. I think I'll get the culture shock pretty bad and miss home but I don't know when that would become homesickness...)
4. To do lots of shopping
5. To become more confident in my choices and those sorts of things...
6. To make new friends from Italy, and around the world (this is definitely a hope more than an expectation hahaha, this year will be extremely hard if I'm friendless...)
7. To visit the Leaning Tower of Pisa (I realllllly hope I get to go here! It's under 3 hours from where I'll be living so hopefully sometime in the year. If I do I promise to take a undoubtedly fail photo of me holding it up :))
8. To visit Pompeii (I would so love to go here too but it's ages from where I'm living so maybe another time)
9. To take a gazillion photos
11. To limit my time on Facebook (I really hope I actually do this and don't waste time on it when I've been so lucky to get this opportunity)
12. To join a sports team (apparently everyone gets fat on exchange, hence the Another Fat Student abbreviation for AFS, so this should help with that and also meeting new people)
13. TO EAT LOTS OF PIZZA!! YAY!!

Under 3 days to go! I started packing today but it's pretty hard when I've already gotten rid of almost of the clothes I'm not taking with me, but I'm hoping to put the stuff I'm using now in on Wednesday so it's all done for the departure on Thursday. 

On Friday I signed out of school with my friend Lilly, who's also going to Italy. We both thought that would make it all sink in and I thought it did for a very brief moment but then it went back to really not seeming real. What that last day of school did do though was make me realise how much I'm going to miss my friends in NZ :( I got one of my school tops signed and reading the messages at the end of the day was actually really sad realising I couldn't experience this next year with them :(

At the moment it's not seeming real at all which I'm really disappointed about because I love the feeling of excitement I normally get when something cool is happening. I just wish I was feeling something, even nerves would be better than nothing :( I went to Rotorua this weekend with my family and when we said goodbye to my Auntie, Uncle and Cousin the "See you next year"'s seemed crazy because I kept thinking "Of course I'll see them again before I leave. We'll go for an impromptu curry one weekend..." but there's no more weekends, no more mondays, no more fridays. Just 3 days :O

Wednesday, 28 August 2013

The countdown's going molto veloce...

So as I write this I have 7 days, 17 hours, 18 minutes and 45 seconds to go until I leave New Zealand, well by the time I post this it will be more like 16 hours but yeah you get the idea.

I have this one line a day journal thing and when I wrote in it the other day I found that it was a year ago that day that AFS had come to speak to my school. My friend Lilly and I started getting really excited and spoke about it all lunch and morning tea that day. At that point it was more just us getting caught up in the excitement, not actually realising we may be able to go on an exchange. I mean so many people had come out of that assembly excited and reading through the brochures so it didn't seem like it would be us two out of all those people who would actually end up signing up - but hey look where we are now :O

My Italian is still coming along slooooooowly but today I finished Rosetta Stone!! YIPEEEE!!! The other day all of the kiwis going to Italy got an email saying none of us had finished and we would have to pay 50 unless we do before we arrive in Rome! That's about $100 NZ so I really wanted to finish and since I haven't been going to school much lately I had more time to do that, it wasn't too much once I actually sat down and did it. Also on the language side of things my brother walked past my room the other night and heard me sleep talking IN ITALIAN! When he told me the next day (via text because he also seemed to share my amazedness haha) I was so excited because even though it probably means nothing I like to take it to mean I'm learning more. I know that when I get to Italy I'm going to find it super hard to communicate no matter how much I practice but my writing and reading are improving which should help with the school or if anyone fancies a game of Italian boggle - which I'm sure happens a lot aye ;)

I still haven't properly started packing because I don't feel like it's close enough to be thinking about it even though it really is. I've thrown a few bits in my suitcase that are actually for the exchange, like presents and stuff but my suitcase still looks very sad and empty at the moment :( I think this is down to how I just still don't realise I'm actually going, well I do but I don't. Normally if I'm going overseas or anything really exciting is happening I get a really excited feeling and it's all I can think about but I'm just not getting that leading up to this which is so weird because it's the most exciting thing to ever happen in my whole life. It's not that I have the opposite feelings though; I'm not really feeling nervous or scared, or stressed - I'm just not feeling. My brain knows that I'm leaving but it hasn't actually hit ME yet, my brain still needs to tell me so yeah hopefully that happens soon. I don't think that even makes sense but that's how I feel like I still don't realise it's actually happening.

I'll do a post just before I leave on expectations because even though AFS goes on about how we shouldn't have them, I don't think anyone can say they don't have some. That's it for now, Ciao! :)

Sunday, 11 August 2013

Language, Packing and Preparations

Everyone that I've spoken to who's come back, or is in Italy at the moment has said they regret not learning as much language before going so I'm trying really hard to learn as much Italian as I can. I've finally started to get on top of Rosetta Stone (or as much as I ever will haha). It's been very slow progress but now I'm over half way to finishing woohoo! I also got a phrase book CD today so I've been listening to that and practising replying "non capisco" to everything which will most likely be my reality in Italy. Non capisco, non capisco, non capisco. Capisce? No, non capisco.

Today I also got my suitcases for the flights, YAY! I can actually start getting stuff packed. I did a pretend pack and it was 1 kg under without a whole bunch of stuff so I think I'll need to cut out a heap of stuff before I go, but I can always buy most of it again there... I hope.

We leave in 24 days, 21 hours and 7 minutes so yeah it's getting pretty close. Today when we went shopping I had to tell my Mum to hold up on the muesli bars she was buying because I only have 15 days left at school and that made it really hit her how soon it was. It's little things like that which really enforce the fact that I'm going so soon. I'm so excited but I keep thinking I should be nervous and I'm not really, it just doesn't seem real!

Until next time, Ciao! :)

Sunday, 4 August 2013

Preparing for the Adventure

In one month today I'll be leaving on the adventure of a lifetime. One. Month. One month. ONE MONTH!

Time has gone so fast it still doesn't seem real to be honest.

I started back at school after two weeks of school holidays last week and it's been really strange. Everyone is doing work towards their external exams but since I won't be here I'm doing well... nothing. In some classes I have to do the work but knowing that it's not counting towards anything is making my enthusiasm negative a milliontrillion. I have been able to do some Italian during classes though so that's helpful.

Before beginning this term I was imagining a relaxing 5 weeks before leaving where I would sleep, eat and daydream about my new Italian life. There's so many things to prepare which I hadn't thought about; visa forms, money, insurance, packing, student allowance, italian argh. I'm have a British passport so I don't actually need a visa which is great but I still need to take all of the forms with me. Then there's the money which after heaps of research I think I'm going to go with the Loaded for Travel card. In New Zealand we can also apply for a student allowance while on exchange so the government gives you money weekly to cover living expenses, this is only for the last two months for me because you have to be 18 to get it. Anyway I don't want to bore the few people who are reading this so if you want any info on any of that kind of stuff feel free to comment and I'll be happy to help. Once all of this stuff is sorted and out of the way the more exciting stuff will come like packing and then actually leaving! :D

Yesterday I went shopping to get stuff I needed for the trip like a new suitcase, shoes and other travel necessities that I didn't have. Doing things like that really makes it seem close and it is but it's also so far away. I just can't imagine myself being in Italy. Emily lives in New Zealand, not Italy. Emily will live in Italy, not New Zealand. omg.

Thursday, 25 July 2013

Dreams become reality... IN 41 DAYS!

Hi everyone (if anyone's even reading this...) and welcome to my blog! My name's Emily, I'm 17 years old and I live in New Zealand. At the beginning of September I'm going on an AFS student exchange to Italy for 10 months. If you would like to read more about the application process I have a colab blog with my friend Lilly who's also going to Italy. On there we have been posting since September last year about applying, fundraising and preparing to leave. We've also done vlogs so make sure you check that out here.

Ever since I was about 8 years old I have dreamt of going on a student exchange but the biggest thing that stopped me was the price. When you see that huge cost if you're anything like me you'd think it would just have to stay a dream. But don't! I don't come from a rich family but after talking to my Mum about it and dreaming of doing this for so many years the dream is finally coming true! I'd looked into other exchange programmes in the past and like I said the cost always lead me to going no further than looking on their websites but when AFS did a talk at my school last year I started to think it could actually be a possibility. At that time I was working and had already saved up a fair amount of money, the guy also talked about scholarships that were available so I thought I may as well give it a go and see if I could get the money. I ended up getting a scholarship through AFS which paid for over half of the programme costs which is so amazing! Apparently the majority of people going on AFS get some sort of funding so everyone has quite a high chance. I also did some fundraising with Lilly which you can read about on our colab blog. If you're thinking of going on exchange and the money is the only thing stopping you please don't let it! There's so many ways of getting help and if you work hard enough anything's possible. I know people say that way too much but it's so true!

I got my host family in April and they sound so lovely! I'm going to be living in Cesena, which is in the north east of Italy. I have a host Mum, Dad and two sisters. The sisters are about 6 months younger and 6 months older than me but the younger one will be on an AFS exchange while I'm in Italy. The family seems really involved in their local AFS chapter. My host Mum is a volunteer and my older host sister has just come back from a year in India with AFS. I couldn't be happier, they sound so amazing! We've been emailing each other every week and I've talked to both of my host sisters on Facebook which is making me even more excited.

My Italian is coming along very, very slowly. I had my first breakthrough - if you could even call it a breakthrough - yesterday. I've been taking Italian lessons with a lovely Italian lady for the past 6 weeksish and I really thought I wasn't getting anywhere until yesterday when it just sort of clicked! I don't know if that's because I finally started actually doing the homework she gave me.... haha. I've also been using an app/website called Duolingo which I really recommend. It's especially helping with my grammar. Other than that AFS Italy has provided us with a computer programme called Rosetta Stone which is an online language learning course. It's good and I do think it's helping but it's just hard to find the time to do it with everything else that's going on.

It's now 41 days until I leave and I'm feeling really excited but I don't think I really realise what I'm actually doing... it's pretty crazy really.One of the biggest things I've learnt from all of the preparation that AFS does with you is that every exchange is different and you only get out what you put in. I'm just so hoping I push myself and put in everything I have because it really is an experience of a life time.

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Ciao!